i can't decide if this makes any sense.

[Chris]

my parents just told me that i am not mature enough to go to a college in a different city and because I don't have any experience being alone. i can't possibly be any more mature than i am now if they continue what they do and constantly coddle me as if i am 8 years old. i also cannot experience being alone because they are always like "NO YOU CAN'T GO ANYWHERE WITHOUT US".

i also can't give them suggestions because that's disrespect, somehow.

[blitzkrieg]

go anyway

once you're 18 fuck having permission

[Jordan]

Sooner or later they will have to learn to let go.
Give them points.
Like say Mommy and Papa. Do you want me to be living at home when I am married also?
If your 18. Just leave. Go where you want. Even though you are leaving under there roof,
You are mature enough to make the right choices. It's not like your gonna go buy a meth spoon and start smelling that crap?

[Chris]

go anyway

once you're 18 fuck having permission

they have a gun, btw.

edit; and i'm not exactly rich.
they also constantly tell me that college is unnecessary and that i should concentrate on finding ways to make lots of money for them. they think that having friends or even knowing anyone outside the immediate is pointless and that ALL YOU NEED IS FAMILY WE'LL BE A FAMILY A FAMILY WHO MAKES MONEY TOGETHER

...

[blitzkrieg]

don't concentrate on them, concentrate on yourself. you've got a while left until you're 18 so try finding a part time job. (not one working with your parents obviously). and don't say there's no jobs there to be had because there always are and you have like 2 years to comfortably find one. use the money from that to move out at 18 and do what you want.

[Steve]

Most people don't have experience living alone before going away to college either. It's tough at first, but it's something that you're gonna have to deal with if you don't want to live with and rely on your parents for the rest of your life.

[animaniatico]

Im sorry if this is disrespect of any way but.
I believe that one of the most STUPID thing you could ever think is:
Success = Having lots of money.
Like, it doesn't matter if you steal, if you are a corrupt person, if you do anything, get money.
What about developing in other areas? Intellectual, Physical, emotional, psychological, and lots more that i can't think anymore.
/end rant

[Chris]

Im sorry if this is disrespect of any way but.
I believe that one of the most STUPID thing you could ever think is:
Success = Having lots of money.
Like, it doesn't matter if you steal, if you are a corrupt person, if you do anything, get money.
What about developing in other areas? Intellectual, Physical, emotional, psychological, and lots more that i can't think anymore.
/end rant

apparently, as long as we have a lot of money and live in a big house where no one can find us so that we're a secluded family away from society, that is what my parents consider successful.

[animaniatico]

Wow, then you'll be living an empty life filled with stupidness, just living because you are living. Just beeing a parasite that uses up job spaces and food and money.
Sad, huh?

[Chris]

Wow, then you'll be living an empty life filled with stupidness, just living because you are living. Just beeing a parasite that uses up job spaces and food and money.
Sad, huh?

BECAUSE ALL WE NEED IS THE FAMILY. JUST US NO ONE ELSE.
REALLY.

[Reflexx]

Dont ever let anyone tell you some bullshiet like leaving your parents is bad and you'll regret it and shiet. Thats all BS, I lived by myself for 3months when I first came to korea in a room the size of half a bathroom and ate ramen cooked up with a portable gas thingy everyday and still had the best time of my life!

[Imitazion]

Tell your parents to cut the string, send you to college, and that you want to live your own life. Why the hell should they make you their little pansy that lives home forever?

[saar331]

my parents just told me that i am not mature enough to go to a college in a different city and because I don't have any experience being alone. i can't possibly be any more mature than i am now if they continue what they do and constantly coddle me as if i am 8 years old. i also cannot experience being alone because they are always like "NO YOU CAN'T GO ANYWHERE WITHOUT US".

i also can't give them suggestions because that's disrespect, somehow.

wtf your parents are paranoid or something
im 16 but wtf they should let you go what kind of parents are they
well actually in my opinion they were just giving you an excuse,they just don't want you to go because they will feel alone..
thats my opinion.. but we all have different parents.

[Orange]

Chris. Grow some fucking balls.
I doubt the reason they homeschooled you now is because they didn't want you to be the token asian kid.
I think it's because they are too attached to you.
Are you an only child? If so, I'm probably right. They just can't stand to see you go.
Confront them. Tell them bluntly to stop trying to manipulate your life to fit theirs. Or submit and live with them until death. Your choice.

[Chris]

Chris. Grow some fucking balls.
I doubt the reason they homeschooled you now is because they didn't want you to be the token asian kid.
I think it's because they are too attached to you.
Are you an only child? If so, I'm probably right. They just can't stand to see you go.
Confront them. Tell them bluntly to stop trying to manipulate your life to fit theirs. Or submit and live with them until death. Your choice.

Assumption fail.
I have a sister.
We were homeschooled because the school teachers were giving me and my sister crap by constantly singling us out to make us look stupid and blaming us automatically for any class disruption. like
HEY CHRIS WHAT'S THE ANSWER TO THIS TELL ME PLZ PLZ PLZ
I DON'T KNOW STOP ASKING ME
CHRIS GO STAND IN THE FUCKING CORNER STOP TELLING YOUR CLASSMATES THE ANSWERS

Chances are it's the fact that it was the period when we were already in homeschool that made them grow attached to us.

[Orange]

Chances are it's the fact that it was the period when we were already in homeschool that made them grow attached to us.
Then that's probably it.
But still, stand up to them. It's not their choice whether you grow up or not. It's yours. They just have to get used to the idea that children grow up. It's part of life.
If they can't handle it then, get a counselor or someone to talk to them and get them through the transition. Because if they don't let you go, they are only setting you up to fail.

[Louise]

Chris. Grow some fucking balls.
I doubt the reason they homeschooled you now is because they didn't want you to be the token asian kid.
I think it's because they are too attached to you.
Are you an only child? If so, I'm probably right. They just can't stand to see you go.
Confront them. Tell them bluntly to stop trying to manipulate your life to fit theirs. Or submit and live with them until death. Your choice.

lol'd hard here