Argh!!

[iJosh]

Okay..so you know how valentines day is coming up and all...well there is this girl in my class I really like...and I know she likes me.. I want to ask her out but my parents say I can't date yet... I just wanna date behind there back anyways but Im too damn shy to talk to her at school...but I can talk to her on MSN or Gmail for hours and hours.. but for some reason when I see her I get real insecure and shy and can't think of anything to say... what should I do? D=....

[shroum]

well id have different answers depending on your age D:
so if your alright with sharing your age or even just your grade I might know some tips ;D

[iJosh]

Im 13 turning 14 Feb 23 and in 7th grade

[shroum]

hmm thats a tough one...

do your parents even know that you like her just wondering?

and are your parents really strict or more relaxed?

[iJosh]

ya im pretty sure my mom knows I do..since she read me txt of me tellin my friend how I want to ask her out xDD and my parents are very strict....

[shroum]

so you cant go out... but she never said anything about dateing ;D

well any ways love comes with a price *cough* like groundings D: go with your heart ;D
even if that means disobeying your parent D:

EDIT: ps. do you happen to go to go to a school called horizon? o.o

[iJosh]

ya..Im really tempted to tell my parents screw it...my birthday is coming up soon and when they ask what I want ima tell em i want to be able to date. xD I live in Vancouver,Washington and go to Hosanna Christian... ;; stupid private schools! D=

[shroum]

ok but one thing you need to know is to tell the girl.
other wise you will date her and she wont know and she will tell her parents you guys r dating and than the parents will want to get to know the other parents and then the girl gets mad that you didn't tell her and than it go's down hill like dominoes D:

but try the birthday thing first ;D

[iJosh]

well..her parents dont let her date either.. so its a fail/fail situtation...

[GrungyHobo]

I've been in similar situations as you Josh! Take it from a guy a year older than you... >_>
Simply get some of your friends, or her friends to accompany you to where you're going, and then you guys can go apart from them...
This can work well at anywhere really.
(Luckily for me, my parents are relaxed so it's usually the girl that has strict parents).
And I know how you feel about talking to her! I've been shy like that before... Just think to yourself "Hey, she's a friend right? She's just like anyone else (except prettier)."

And fucking go out with her today.

[iJosh]

well thats what I planed on doing at the mall or something...I was going to ask her out on thursday but...my friend decided to be a dumb fuck and ruined it.. lol so ima ask her out Wednesday

[GrungyHobo]

Funny, because I'm going to ask out a lovely young lady on Wednesday....
Hopefully.
Unfortunately I'm just as shy as you when it comes to this shit.
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[iJosh]

lol nice! I know she likes me too... im just way to shy... lol